What I didn’t know is that productivity didn’t have to feel harsh. It didn’t have to be loud, rushed, or painful. It could be soft, intuitive, and deeply human — something that gently supported me instead of draining me.

That’s when I discovered soft productivity: the art of getting things done without losing your energy, identity, or peace. And honestly? It changed everything.

What Soft Productivity Really Means

Soft productivity is the opposite of the hustle culture mindset. It’s not about squeezing the most out of yourself — it’s about supporting yourself so that productivity feels aligned instead of forced.

It’s especially powerful for neurodivergent people because it works with your brain, not against it.

Soft productivity looks like:

• Doing tasks in smaller, compassionate steps
• Listening to your energy instead of ignoring it
• Celebrating small wins (even tiny ones)
• Creating systems that feel gentle, cozy, and non-restrictive
• Prioritizing your nervous system over your to-do list

It’s not laziness. It’s not procrastination.
It’s sustainable productivity.

The Moment I Realized Hustle Culture Wasn’t For Me

I used to feel guilty whenever I wasn’t operating at 110%. If I rested, I felt unproductive. If I slowed down, I felt behind. If I did things imperfectly, I felt like I had failed.

But one morning — after waking up early, doing a short pilates session, cooking, and preparing drinks — I felt proud, energized… and then suddenly exhausted.

It wasn’t burnout. It was overstimulation.
My mind wanted to do more, but my body whispered “enough.”

That’s when it clicked:
My productivity wasn’t the problem.
The expectation was.

Soft productivity gave me permission to breathe.

Why Soft Productivity Works for Neurodivergent Brains

If you’re ADHD, autistic, or sensitive to sensory load, you already know how draining the world can be. Your nervous system has a limit — and ignoring it only delays the inevitable crash.

Soft productivity works because it honors:

• fluctuating energy levels
• the need for comfort and regulation
• sensory overwhelm
• hyperfocus cycles
• the emotional impact of “being seen” or performing
• the shame spirals we fight when we can’t keep up

When you remove shame from the equation, productivity becomes lighter. Your brain stops perceiving tasks as threats, and suddenly things feel doable again.

How I Practice Soft Productivity in My Daily Life

1. I Start With Gentle Movement Instead of Forcing a Workout

Some mornings I do pilates or yoga. Some mornings I stretch for two minutes. Some mornings I move slowly around my apartment with a blanket over my shoulders like a cozy ghost.
And all of it counts.

Soft productivity honors effort, not intensity.

Affiliate-friendly mention: A cushioned yoga mat makes gentle movement more soothing for sensitive joints.

2. I Break Tasks Into “Micro Wins”

Instead of cleaning my entire kitchen, I wash three dishes.
Instead of tackling a full project, I prepare one section.
Instead of journaling a whole page, I write one sentence.

Micro wins help avoid overwhelm and spark dopamine — your brain gets rewarded without feeling pressured.

If you live with ADHD or sensory overload, this method is life-changing.

3. I Build Sensory-Friendly Rituals Into My Routines

Soft textures, warm drinks, quiet music, soft lighting — these regulate my system so I can function without spiraling.

Some examples:

• brewing tea before opening my laptop
• using a warm robe when I’m overstimulated
• lighting a fall-scented candle while planning my day
• using white noise or lofi to stay grounded

These aren’t “aesthetic extras.”
They are regulation tools.

Internal link suggestion: link to your fall sensory-friendly routine post.

4. I Work in Cozy Time Blocks, Not Rigid Schedules

Rigid routines spike my anxiety. Soft productivity lets me use flexible time blocks instead:

• Focus for 15 minutes
• Take a comfort break
• Do 1–2 micro tasks
• Reset your senses: drink water, stretch, breathe
• Continue if you can — stop if you can’t

This reduces guilt and makes tasks feel manageable.

5. I Celebrate Completion Without Judgment

One of the core parts of soft productivity is celebrating effort — whether you did 5 minutes or 50.

I give myself small mental rewards like:

• “I’m proud of you.”
• “You showed up today.”
• “That was enough.”

It removes the perfectionism that often sabotages progress.

Affiliate-friendly mention: A guided journal helps track micro wins daily.

The Emotional Side: Why Soft Productivity Feels Safe

For many of us, productivity is tied to shame — especially if we grew up being misunderstood, labeled lazy, or criticized for not being consistent.

Soft productivity creates safety:
A feeling of being held, supported, and regulated.

It allows you to:

• move at your pace
• keep your identity intact
• respect your energy
• reduce masking
• stop forcing your brain into systems that don’t work

It’s not just a method.
It’s self-trust.
It’s healing.

A Soft Productivity Day in My Life (Realistic Example)

Here’s how a gentle day might look for me:

• Wake up slowly
• Drink water before checking my phone
• 5 minutes of stretching
• Make a simple breakfast
• Do one essential task (reply to an email, plan content, clean one area)
• Take a sensory break
• Work in a 20-minute cozy time block
• Use micro wins to build momentum
• Rest without guilt

Nothing explosive.
Nothing intense.
Just enough.

And yet — it gets things done. It keeps me grounded. It helps me stay consistent without burning out.

Soft Productivity vs. Traditional Productivity

Soft productivity is not “doing less.”
It’s doing differently — in a way that aligns with your nervous system.

How You Can Create Your Own Soft Productivity Routine

Here are beginner steps:

Step 1: Pick 3 micro wins

Something tiny, doable, and low pressure.

Step 2: Support your senses

Light, sound, texture, warmth — choose 2 comforting things.

Step 3: Work in one cozy block

15–20 minutes. No pressure for more.

Step 4: Celebrate the effort

Soft praise helps rewire your brain.

Step 5: End your day with intention

Write one thing you’re proud of.

Final Thoughts

Soft productivity isn’t about doing the most — it’s about doing what supports you. It’s about showing up for yourself in a gentle way, honoring your energy, and trusting that small steps truly matter.

If you’re neurodivergent, sensitive, overwhelmed, or just tired of forcing yourself into systems that don’t fit you — this approach might shift everything.

What does soft productivity look like for you? Do you have a cozy routine that helps you stay grounded? Share your small wins in the comments — I’d love to hear them.

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Because “relaxation” looks a little different when your brain never really clocks out.

Vacationing as a neurodivergent person isn’t always easy. Between sensory overwhelm, unpredictable schedules, and social pressure, travel can quickly become exhausting. But with a few soft rituals and travel tips, neurodivergent travel can actually feel nourishing and even fun.

Packing My Brain With My Bags

Because no matter how many outfits I pack, I can’t leave my brain at home.

Vacations? I love them. Truly.
The anticipation, the Pinterest boards, the weather-checking, the way I plan my outfits like I’m filming a music video in Santorini (even though I’m probably just going to nap in the hotel room by Day 2).
The ADHD in me craves the excitement of planning: the novelty, the endless possibilities, the romantic idea of becoming a whole new person just because I’m in a new time zone.

But then the autism in me remembers:

“You know we hate leaving our comfort zone, right?”

There’s this odd contradiction in my brain, one part hungry for spontaneity, the other desperately clinging to the weighted blanket of routine.

Even if I’ve made 101 checklists, printed backups, and saved the Google Maps route in three languages, I’m still internally screaming about the unexpected.
What if the room is too loud?
What if I can’t find food that feels “safe”?
What if I have to make small talk with strangers and smile like I’m not dying inside?

Honestly, I usually feel tired the moment I arrive.
I haven’t even unpacked, and already the sensory overwhelm is pressing down like a too-heavy carry-on:
The airport noise, the new smells, the unfamiliar bed textures, the introvert hangover from saying “thank you” too many times at check-in.

It’s no wonder I come back from vacations needing… another vacation.

I used to wonder why I returned home feeling more drained than before I left, like I left with one battery and came back with a blinking red light.

Now I know:

My brain needs rest in its own language.

And that might not look like beach parties or endless sightseeing.

It might look like:

• Bringing my comfort tea in my suitcase.
• Scheduling a day to do nothing.
• Honoring my capacity instead of forcing myself to “make the most” of everything.

And honestly? That’s not a failure.
That’s self-respect.
That’s beautifully neurodivergent travel.

The Overwhelm Starts Before Takeoff

Packing shouldn’t feel like a mental obstacle course…
And yet, every single time, I somehow end up emotionally wrestling with a sock pile and breaking down over which suitcase gives off the right “I’m chill but emotionally prepared” vibe. Spoiler: none of them do. They never do (crying silently and slowly sliding down the wall).

By the time I’ve finished organizing my 7th checklist (yes, I said seventh… and no, I’m not ashamed), my room looks like I’ve been auditioning for a very specific kind of reality TV show: “Survivor: Airport Edition.”

Here’s the truth:

I overpack.
Not because I want to… but because we never know.
What if I spill something?
What if I suddenly decide I do want to wear that one cute outfit I rejected four times during the first fitting session?
What if my mood changes, the weather flips, or I’m suddenly possessed by the ghost of Miranda Presley in Devil Wears Prada?

So yes, I pack options, multiple, I might add.
I plan. I replan. I color-code my Google Maps itinerary like I’m plotting a world tour.
And when I say I travel with reminders of my comfort zone, I mean it literally:

• My weighted plushie (first-class emotional support).
• At least two of my favorite teas (one for calming, one for energy boosting).
• My Kindle and at least two physical books (that I might read or not), just in case I get moody about screen time.
• My comfort perfume because smelling like home helps when you’re far from it.
• And don’t test me if my luggage had space and TSA had vibes, I’d bring a candle too.

Packing becomes this chaotic blend of excitement, anxiety, and overthinking.
It’s like I’m building a portable sanctuary with a 23kg weight limit.
And somehow, that feels… comforting.

There are so many emotions stuffed into that suitcase alongside my outfits: anticipation, nerves, the thrill of adventure, and a healthy dose of ”please let this trip not break me.

But I’ve learned something important:
If the stress starts before takeoff, I’m allowed to slow down. That’s why I generally start over a month before.
I don’t have to rush the ritual.

Because rest?
It begins in the prep.
And if packing a little piece of my comfort zone helps me feel grounded in the unknown, then that’s not extra… that’s essential.

New Place, Same Brain

You know what travel brochures never mention?
That even if you land in the most Instagrammable destination, with pastel rooftops and beaches so blue they make you question reality, your brain still comes with you.
And mine? Oh, she’s got baggage.

Yes, I adore new places. I love the spark of curiosity, the sense of “Ooh, what’s that street food?”, the romantic idea that I’m a mysterious girl wandering a foreign city in search of herself (with comfy shoes, of course). But I also need familiar rhythms. Structure. My rituals. My sanity.

Because I’m not here to “vacation like everyone else.” I’m here to survive beautifully, and if that means turning down a group hike to lay horizontally in my pajamas with a tea mug on my chest… so be it.

I’ve learned the art of bringing my own peace with me:

• My tea sachets? Packed like gold.
• My curated “soothe the chaos” playlist? Already downloaded. (You think I trust hotel Wi-Fi?)
• My journal? She comes too, even if I only write two incoherent, exhausted sentences at night that just say “today was…a lot.”

And let’s talk about the mid-trip recharge day.
Yes, I schedule it.
Yes, I look forward to it.
And no, I don’t care if someone’s uncle is annoyed I’m skipping the all-day excursion to look at rocks in the sun.
Because one thing I’m never going to do is wreck my entire nervous system for the sake of someone else’s itinerary.

That nap day? The one where I shut off all expectations, crawl under unfamiliar blankets, maybe binge a show I’ve seen five times, maybe just stare at the ceiling like a sea otter?
That’s sacred.
That’s not laziness… that’s damage control.
That’s knowing my limits, choosing rest before burnout, and building joy without a meltdown detour.

And if someone wants to label that as “missing out”? Cool. Let them.
Because the only thing I’m missing out on is having to put myself back together piece by piece afterward, and that’s a deal I’ll take any day.

It’s not “lame.”
It’s not selfish.
It’s strategy.
Soft survival.
A love letter to my future self, who deserves to come home whole.

So yeah… new place, same brain.
But now, that brain gets to lead the way.

Sensory Overload in Paradise

Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get printed on travel brochures:
Paradise can still be loud.

The bustling markets, clinking cutlery at packed restaurants, the hum of scooters, the weird flickering lights in hotel hallways, all the things that make a place feel “alive” can also feel like someone turned up the sensory dial just to spite you.

For me, it doesn’t take long before the volume of the world gets too loud; literally and figuratively.
It’s not just “a bit noisy.” It’s lightheaded, short of breath, shut-it-all-down-before-I-snap levels of overwhelm. I can go from feeling dreamy to dizzy in a matter of minutes.

Sometimes, it starts with sound.
A restaurant packed with chatter, music, and clinking dishes might feel electric to someone else, but to me? It’s like trying to think while ten radios are playing in different languages at the same time.
That’s why my noise-canceling earbuds live rent-free in my beach tote. Lifesavers. Sanity-preservers. Peace-on-demand.

Then there’s crowds.
The moving bodies, the unpredictable spacing, the near-constant pressure to keep up with someone else’s pace. I get crowd anxiety so bad I’ve skipped entire events just to keep from crying in public.
And when I do go? I stim. A lot.
Flapping my hands against my thighs. Tapping. Humming. I used to feel embarrassed. Now I call it what it is: self-regulation, baby. A nervous system doing her best with what she’s got.

Even at night, the part where I’m supposed to recover, my brain doesn’t clock out.
New beds feel weird. The sheets are scratchy. The AC hums in a way my home doesn’t. I can hear every pipe, hallway creak, passing footstep. I usually don’t sleep well for the first few nights unless I crash from pure exhaustion.
And even then? It’s not restful. It’s survival sleep.
A light doze in foreign territory.

That’s why I always bring scent.
Perfume, essential oils, a fabric spritz that smells like home…something familiar to anchor me.
Scent is my secret grounding tool. It tricks my brain into believing we’re safe, calm, back in the known world.
It’s comfort in a bottle. A gentle “you’re okay” in mist form.
I’d pack my entire home scent library if I could. TSA would fight me.

So no, I don’t always do the group outings.
Sometimes I hang back, journal on the balcony, re-watch comfort YouTube videos in bed, or just breathe deeply with my hoodie pulled over my head like a sensory cocoon.

And here’s the thing:
It doesn’t mean I’m not having fun.
It means I’m protecting my joy.

Because my joy isn’t loud.
It’s not about packed itineraries or 4,000-step museum tours.
My joy is soft. It’s curated. It’s made of moments I can actually feel instead of just survive.

I’ve stopped trying to bulldoze my way through discomfort.
Now I ask:
“What would feel gentler right now?”
That’s the question that saved my sanity.
That’s the question that makes a vacation actually restorative.

My Joy Might Look Different

You know those Instagram travel vlogs that are just go-go-go, from screaming on a jet ski at 9 AM to sipping cocktails on a rooftop by midnight, outfit changed four times in between? Yeah… that’s not my lane. Not even close.

Don’t get me wrong, I love traveling. I love planning, daydreaming, imagining myself as the mysterious woman with wind in her hair, glowing in the golden hour while holding a gelato. But living the trip? That’s a different story.

For me, joy doesn’t come in loud bursts. It doesn’t wear heels or demand I capture every angle.
My joy is quiet. Unfiltered. Sometimes beautifully boring to others.

Like finding my perfect corner in a museum, the one where no one lingers too long, where the light hits just right, where I can just sit and stare at brush strokes like they’re telling me secrets.
I’ll take that over a crowded tour any day.

Or the way I bring a soft blanket from home, not for Instagram aesthetics, but because new beds always feel a little alien. Draping my familiar over the unfamiliar? That’s the kind of emotional support layering I need to function.

And don’t even get me started on reading in a temporary hideaway.
That one sunny armchair near the window in my Airbnb? That’s my throne. A place where I can cozy up with my Kindle (and two backup books, more like three … because options soothe me), sip my favorite tea from home, and watch the golden hour stretch across unfamiliar walls like a warm promise.

Some nights, I don’t want the rooftop. I want the balcony.
Wrapped in a throw, letting the rumble of distant waves become my personal meditation soundtrack. There’s magic in that kind of moment. The kind that doesn’t demand performance. It simply is.

And then there’s food… let’s talk snacks.
You see, I don’t chase wild nightlife. I chase dessert stalls.
I treat new cities like one big ice cream hunt. Gelato, mochi, local pastries I can’t pronounce… I will find them all. I snack my anxiety into submission. And you know what? It works. Sugar therapy? 10/10.

While others are posting selfies from adrenaline adventures, I’m probably sipping iced tea on a shaded bench, people-watching, or journaling about the little things: how the streets smell different at sunset, how the shop owner smiled, how the sea breeze made me cry in the best way.

So yeah, my joy might not be loud.
It doesn’t need a schedule or a highlight reel.

But it’s mine.

And the more I let it take its shape: soft, slow, imperfect, snack-filled… the more I return home feeling whole.

Not burnt out. Not overstimulated.
Not like I’ve been playing a role the entire trip.

Just… me. Recharged. Settled. Joyful… in a language my nervous system understands.

Final Thoughts: Redefining What Rest Means

If you’ve ever come back from a vacation needing another vacation just to feel human again… hi, bestie. Same hat, same suitcase, same existential unpacking.

I used to wonder what was wrong with me. Why I felt like the only person in the group who was ready to cry in a hotel bathroom after Day 2. Why I always needed a full nap and a snack after “relaxing” on the beach. Why the sound of someone chewing too loud at dinner made me fantasize about walking directly into the ocean.

But the truth is: neurodivergent travel doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s version.

It doesn’t have to be jam-packed, Instagram-perfect, or adrenaline-soaked.
It can be soft. Slow. Ritualized. Predictable in the ways your nervous system needs.
It can look like:

• Overpacking because your plushie, your tea, your favorite perfume, and your three comfort books are essential travel companions.
• Making five different checklists for the same suitcase and feeling genuinely soothed by all of them.
• Spending your first full day napping and calling it sacred.
• Using earbuds like a barrier spell.
• Skipping the tour to find the best pastry in town… on your own time, with zero guilt.
• Spritzing your pillow with the scent of home just to trick your brain into sleeping.

You are not “doing it wrong” if your rest doesn’t look exciting to others.
You’re not ungrateful or boring or antisocial. You’re honoring your brain’s rhythm. You’re refusing to burn out just to check a box. You’re letting yourself exist without the pressure to “perform” joy because you’re “somewhere nice.”

There is no badge for who had the most exhausting itinerary.

You are allowed to:

• Skip the group dinner.
• Pack your comfort.
• Sit out the hike.
• Cry in the Airbnb and then journal about it.
• Cancel plans without apologizing.
• Redefine fun on your terms.

Travel is still travel when it’s done softly.
Joy is still joy when it’s quiet.

So if you ever need a reminder:
You are allowed to take up space… even when you’re far from home.

And you’re not alone.
This blog, this post, this little corner of the internet? It’s here to hold space for all the neurodivergent babes building a version of rest that actually works.

You’re doing more than enough.
You deserve a vacation that doesn’t empty you.
You deserve to come home to yourself.

Have you ever felt this way while traveling? What do you do to make vacations easier on your neurodivergent mind? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments.

And if you felt seen today, subscribe for more cozy, honest, real-talk reflections on mental health, self-kindness, and the soft life we’re learning to create, one small ritual at a time.

Many resources now exist to support neurodivergent travel, like ADDitude Magazine’s ADHD travel tips for managing routines and overstimulation. For more insight on neurodivergent travel from an autistic perspective, check out the Autistic Self Advocacy Network which promotes inclusive and supportive travel practices.

I talk more about managing overstimulation in Diagnosed or Undiagnosed: Let’s Talk About It, a post that explores the emotional impact of discovering you’re neurodivergent whether or not you have a formal label.

Let’s Talk in the Comments

Do you bring little rituals with you when you travel?
Have you found ways to make vacations feel less chaotic and more nourishing for your beautiful, complex brain?

I’d love to hear about them.

Drop your favorite neurodivergent-friendly travel tips below… the cozy hacks, the soft boundaries, the unexpected things that actually help.
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This space is built for us, the feelers, the overthinkers, the sensitive souls, figuring it out one small step at a time. You are so welcome here.

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“Call them weird habits. I call them my survival hacks crafted by a brain that refuses to be boring.”

You know what’s wild?

Spending most of your life ( a huge chunk of it) thinking you’re a chaotic gremlin with zero willpower, when really, you were just trying to function with an undiagnosed neurodivergent brain on fire. I thought I was broken. Lazy. Overdramatic. The girl who “had so much potential but couldn’t apply herself.” Sound familiar?

I used to mask so hard, I deserved an Oscar, where is my standing ovation? Where is my honorary degree in Pretending to Be Normal? I was over here performing “functional human” like it was Broadway, all while internally juggling 46 browser tabs, three forgotten to-do lists, and the emotional weight of a soggy tissue. I would beat myself up for having a million thoughts at once, for zoning out mid-conversation, for misplacing the same item multiple times in one morning, for forgetting the oven was still on (multiple times, it is a miracle that I have not burned a house yet), or for never finishing a task unless it was fueled by last-minute adrenaline and a sprinkle of existential panic.

I blamed myself for everything. For not being “disciplined,” for not trying harder, for being the kind of person who organizes her entire desk instead of replying to one email. And all this time, I was just… navigating a brain that functions differently. No one told me that. No one gave me a map. But now? Oh, honey, now I’ve entered my no shame era. These “weird” brain habits? They’re mine. They’re real. And honestly? They kind of slap. So let’s unpack the glorious, chaotic weirdness. No apologies, no masking, no trying to shrink ourselves to fit into boxes we were never meant to be stuffed into in the first place.

If something grabs my attention? It owns me. No questions asked. No room for negotiations. I can go from casually scrolling through Pinterest to spending 72 hours obsessively researching the life cycle of bees, reorganizing my playlists based on launch decades, and learning how to make artisanal soy candles with ethically sourced wicks and intention-charged lavender oil… all in one sleepless weekend. And then, poof…the obsession vanishes, and I go about my life with satisfaction sprinkled with a little guilt.

It’s not just passion as some may think…it’s a full-blown brain takeover.

Was it productive? Who knows. Was it thrilling? Absolutely. Sometimes, I don’t even notice I’m in a hyperfixation spiral until I’m dehydrated, sleep-deprived, and haven’t talked to another human in three days, and that is crazy because I Do Not Live Alone. My group chats are gathering dust, my cats are silently judging me, and Uber Eats thinks I died.

I lose entire days to the thrill of a new “thing.” It could be fun facts about ancient civilizations. Could be tracking down a new Korean skincare routine. Could be a sudden urge to understand how deep-sea creatures communicate via bioluminescence (don’t ask). I once watched multiple documentaries in a row about Marie Antoinette. I’ve also planned full-blown business ideas in my notes app at 2 am that I’ll never revisit. But in the moment? It feels like I’ve found the meaning of life. I am motivated, elated, surfing on my high.

And when it fades (because it always does), I crash like a little brain comet. There’s usually confusion. Some guilt. And a pile of half-finished projects staring at me like: “Hey girl… what happened?”

But I’ve stopped beating myself up for it. That chaotic curiosity? That insatiable need to know, to dive deep, to become an overnight expert in literally anything? That’s magic. That’s neurodivergent fire.

So yes, I am the Hyperfixation Queen, as I like to call myself in my mind. And if you need someone to plan your entire European train route in under three hours while learning to knit and listening to three videos at once, I’m your girl. Except I might feel overstimulated and burned out after, Hehe.

I don’t talk to myself. I perform!

We’re talking full productions, okay? Accents. Emotions. Pauses for dramatic effect. Sometimes I even switch languages mid-convo just to keep things spicy, French inner monologue with a sprinkle of English sass and a touch of Japanese wisdom? Iconic. In my head, I’m a certified multilingual powerhouse. A true one-woman show. Arguments. Pep talks. I am the main character, therapist, narrator, critic, and hype squad.

These little inner chats? They’re never boring. One minute I’m delivering a TED Talk to my imaginary audience about why I haven’t started the book I bought two weeks ago, and I swore that I needed badly, the next I’m doing a therapy session, with myself, as both the patient and the therapist. (“And how did that make you feel, sweetheart?” “Like watching the phone ring and never answering any calls again.”)

Sometimes I rehearse full-blown arguments that will never happen. Or I replay old conversations and rewrite them with way better comebacks. Or I hype myself up like I’m about to step on stage at the Met Gala… just to go buy Cat food.

And honestly? I give myself better advice than most people do. I know myself. I know what I need to hear, even when it’s tough. My inner dialogue is smarter, funnier, and way more emotionally intelligent than anything I can usually get out of my mouth in real life.

Because, here’s the kicker, once I have to speak to an actual human being? My whole system glitches. My brain overheats, my cheeks start cooking like I’m a lobster in a fine restaurant, and my fluent, poetic inner dialogue disappears into static. I start stammering, my mind goes blank, and suddenly I can’t remember if words are even real. Like… what is language?

But inside? Inside, I am eloquent. Wise. Funny. Witty. A little unhinged. Basically, a cozy intellectual chaos gremlin with a PhD in self-talk and imaginary debates.

So if you see me staring into the void with a weird expression on my face? Don’t worry. I’m not losing it. I’m just deep in rehearsal.

I’m not even kidding when I say I run on background noise like it’s my life force. Silence? Absolutely not. That’s when the intrusive thoughts start hosting a conference. My brain needs a soundtrack at all times, not just to vibe, but to function.

I start my morning with music. I journal with J-Pop or old R&B in the background (because yes, I have to fuel my delulu fantasy, thank you). I write essays with Afrobeats or hyperpop. I cook with Classical. I walk with a mix-and-match playlist or a true crime podcast that’s weirdly calming. If I’m not actively trying to fall asleep or meditating, just be sure something is playing.

And here’s the kicker: it has to be my choice. My playlist. My vibe. If someone else fiddles with the volume or changes the song mid-vibe? Instant sensory betrayal. I will pretend to be okay, but internally, I’m recalculating my entire life (and theirs). Like, how dare you interrupt my concentration flow with a song I didn’t emotionally approve of or at a volume that I wasn’t prepared for?

And don’t even get me started on YouTube in the background. Sometimes it’s a study vlog or a documentary. Other times, it’s just someone talking about skincare or obscure historical facts. But the moment they mention a cute product or outfit? My hyperfocus hits the gas. Suddenly, I’m six tabs deep, trying to find that exact lip gloss or cute dress and calculating international shipping. My task? Forgotten. My to-do list? A ghost. My wallet? Nervously sweating.

My Spotify Wrapped every year looks like a sound collage from 18 different personalities. Genres all over the place. Thousands of minutes of everything from jazz to dark academia playlists to chaotic remixes of video game soundtracks. It’s honestly a masterpiece of beautiful disarray.

And I know some people need quiet to concentrate, but for me? Silence is the distraction. Background noise helps organize the chaos in my brain. Like each track gives my thoughts a little rhythm to march to, without it, they just float off into oblivion or worse, start looping that one cringey memory from 2017 on repeat.

So yes, I’ll take the white noise. I’ll take the chaos. But only if I’m the DJ.

I make lists. Oh, do I make lists.

I make a list of what I need to do.
Then a list of how to do the things on the first list.
Then I color-code that list.
Then I create a new list to prioritize the first two lists.
Then I open my planning app to digitize it.
Then I copy-paste parts of it into my Notes app because that feels safer.
Then I rewrite the whole thing in my cutest notebook because… aesthetics.
And then… I forget they all exist.

It’s the process, okay?!

Something about making lists makes me feel organized, like I’m the CEO of my life (because I am), and I know what I’m doing. It gives me a sense of control over the chaos. It’s comforting, like giving my anxiety a map before sending it off into the wild. Making the list is a little ritual of its own: the fresh page, the cute handwriting (on page one), the little dopamine hit of thinking I’ve got it together.

But then… poof. I don’t follow them.
Or I forget where I wrote them.
Or I rewrite the same to-do list 5 five times across different notebooks, sticky notes, and apps.
Or I get overwhelmed by the number of lists and decide to scroll under my blanket for an hour instead. #Productivity

Sometimes I’ll find a list from months ago hidden in a journal or random doc and be like, “Wow, this girl was ambitious.” And by “this girl,” I mean past-me. And she meant well. She really tried.

But hey, I still stand by the fact that writing the list counts. It’s a form of mental decluttering. Even if I don’t execute every item, the act of listing helps me release the buzzing pressure of holding it all in my brain.

I’ve now accepted that list-making is part of my neurodivergent ritual. A little dance between intention and avoidance. And honestly? I’d rather be the girl with 12 forgotten to-do lists than no dreams at all.

I don’t do moderation. I either clean the whole apartment at 2 AM with Beyoncé blasting in the background like I’m starring in my own personal comeback concert… or I stare at a screen in the bathroom for five business days, contemplating existence and forgetting why I even came in here.

There is no in-between.
Productivity? A roulette wheel.
Consistency? Never met her.

It’s giving extremes. It’s giving “either I’m thriving or I’m a potato in a blanket burrito.” And honestly, both versions of me are valid.

This mindset followed me into school, too. If I weren’t sure I could get an A or B, I would completely disengage. Like… why even bother if I wasn’t going to be perfect? I used to start things with all the passion and ambition in the world and drop them just as fast the moment they didn’t meet the impossible standard I’d set in my head. It wasn’t laziness, it was fear. Fear of failing, fear of being average, fear of not living up to the imaginary version of me who never messed up and always “had her life together.”

I’m a perfectionist. And it’s not always cute.

Sometimes it pushes me to do amazing things. To create magic, stay focused, get results.
Other times, it paralyzes me into doing nothing at all. Because the pressure to be excellent makes “good enough” feel like failure. And that can be exhausting.

I’ve missed out on hobbies, opportunities, even rest, because I believed that if I couldn’t be great at something, I didn’t deserve to try.
Now? I’m trying to unlearn that.

Trying to celebrate effort instead of outcome. Every little win is celebrated.
Trying to let myself enjoy things badly.
Trying to clean one dish instead of the whole kitchen.
Trying to study for 10 minutes instead of cramming at 4 AM like I’m in a bad drama.
Trying to show up messy, imperfect, but real.

Because life isn’t an all-or-nothing performance or black and white… It’s a beautiful display of different shades of grey.
It’s a little chaotic improv set, and we’re just figuring it out with mismatched socks and leftover energy drinks.

I have emotional attachments to mugs, pens, notebooks, scarves, bags, that one dress I haven’t worn since 2019, but might need if I ever go on a cute coffee date.
Oh, and that one broom? The one that hits the corner just right? Yeah. She’s family now.

If one of them breaks or gets lost, I grieve. And I don’t mean “ugh, that sucks.”
I mean full mourning mode. Sad playlist. Staring out the window. Questioning the meaning of impermanence. Don’t judge me, Sarah.

I don’t like letting go of things. Even if I know I don’t use them anymore.
Once, I was cleaning out my wardrobe, you know, trying to declutter, be a responsible adult. And my friend was helping me like, “Okay, if you haven’t worn it in over a year, toss it.”
Toss it??? Ma’am… that dress was supposed to be worn at a future birthday picnic that never happened. Those heels were meant for the boss babe life I fantasized about but never clocked into. Those outfits were tied to plans and daydreams and little pieces of me that didn’t quite bloom.

And so yes, I cried.
I had an actual meltdown over a pile of clothes I never even liked that much, because they still meant something to me.
I sulked for days afterward. Still thinking about them.
Still thinking about them now. (I miss you, black leather shorts.)

Don’t even get me started on my plushie collection. Every single one has a backstory and a personality and a permanent place in my heart. If anyone ever tried to “donate” them? Oh no. I would throw hands. Respectfully.

I guess this habit, this hyper-attachment to objects, is part of how I process memories. How I hold onto meaning. How I anchor myself when everything else feels chaotic. My sentimental brain likes keeping physical reminders of the things I love, the versions of me I’ve been, and the places I’ve traveled (even if it’s just from my couch).

So yeah. I get weird about letting go. But that weirdness? That’s love. That’s sensitivity. That’s neurodivergent magic.
And I’m not ashamed of it anymore.

People love calling these things “weird.”
I’ve stopped correcting them. I just smile and say in my head, “Oh no, that’s called adaptive strategy.”

Because listen: I didn’t choose to function this way.
But I did choose to survive.
To adapt. To cope.
To find what works for a brain that doesn’t exactly play by society’s rulebook.

My hyperfixations? They’ve helped me learn faster than any class ever did. I’ve deep-dived into subjects I never thought I’d love, all because my brain said, “Yes. This. Obsess.” And yeah, sometimes I forget to eat or shower when I’m in a spiral of curiosity. But I’ve also built skills, hobbies, and confidence because of it.

My chaotic multitasking? Might look messy from the outside. But it works for my nonlinear brain. I jump between tabs, ideas, tasks, and eventually, the picture connects. I’m not “scatterbrained.” I’m just running a high-speed internal browser with a dozen downloads happening at once.

And don’t even get me started on my “unusual” routines.
Some days it’s a playlist that keeps me grounded.
Other days, it’s a full-blown performance in the mirror while talking myself through anxiety.
That’s not weird, that’s self-regulation. That’s nervous system care. That’s therapy… but make it neurodivergent.

ADHD and Autism don’t come with a manual.
Nobody hands you a guide that says, “Here’s how to do life in a society built for neurotypicals.”
So we invent. We hack. We experiment.
We find workarounds that aren’t “normal,” but they’re brilliant in their own way.

And honestly? Neurodivergent life hacks >>> normal people routines.

If you relate to any of this if your brain does cartwheels through tasks or if you’ve ever cried over a chipped mug or cleaned your entire house instead of replying to an email, I want you to know:

• You’re not broken.
• You’re just built different.
• And that’s not only okay, it’s powerful.

Here’s my advice to you, from one chaotic genius to another:

• Stop fighting your natural rhythm. Learn it. Ride it. It’s yours.

• Build systems around your brain, not against it.

• Celebrate what works, even if it looks unconventional.

• Give yourself grace. No one’s thriving 24/7… not even the ones who look like they are.

• And please, please let go of shame. It doesn’t serve you. Curiosity does. Compassion does. Creativity does.

You deserve to feel proud of the ways you’ve made life work for you.

And honestly? If anyone calls your neurodivergent habits “weird,” just tell them you’re innovating.
They’ll catch up eventually.

After I got diagnosed, I felt everything all at once. It wasn’t linear, it wasn’t neat, it was like every version of me showed up at the same time, screaming and crying and dancing and collapsing in a big, dramatic pile.
There was relief, yes. Finally! finally! I had an answer. A name. A reason why things always felt a little bit off, a little bit heavier, a little bit too much.

But also? There was grief.
Grief for the little girl who tried so hard to “act normal.”
For the teenager who pushed herself until she burned out because she thought her exhaustion meant she was lazy.
For the woman who masked every day, who choked on shame, who thought she was just… broken or not good enough.

The diagnosis opened the door to clarity, but clarity is not the same thing as peace.
It took time. Tears. Anger. Reprocessing my entire life through a new lens.
Some days, I felt empowered.
Some days I felt like I’d just been handed a book in a language I couldn’t read and told, “This is you now. Good luck.”

But slowly, softly, I began to build a relationship with my brain.
I stopped forcing it to do things the “right” way, the “productive” way, the way that works for neurotypical people on social media who can wake up at 5 AM and write gratitude lists before blinking.

Instead, I started asking:
“What works for me?”
Not what should work. Not what used to work. Not what someone else told me might work.

I started noticing my energy waves and planning around them, not against them.
I built gentle routines. I allowed room for experimentation.
I gave myself permission to live in my own rhythm, chaotic, beautiful, nonlinear, and things slowly started to make more sense.

Getting diagnosed didn’t magically fix everything. But it gave me something so much more valuable:
Compassion.
A framework to understand my patterns.
The language to explain my needs.
The courage to stop apologizing for how I exist.

So now? I embrace the chaos. I make room for the difference.
Because this brain of mine may be extra, may be unpredictable, but it is mine.
And it is worthy of softness, grace, and celebration.

So if you also:

• Repeat entire conversations in your head like they’re Emmy-winning sitcom reruns (with dramatic re-edits for every possible outcome)

• Get overwhelmed by “simple” tasks like…checking your email, choosing socks, or opening that one scary envelope that’s been haunting your table for weeks

• Can’t start anything unless there’s an adrenaline spike, a looming deadline, or some strange novelty attached to it (hello, 3 AM productivity rush)

Then, hey… welcome!
You’re in beautifully chaotic company.

This corner of the internet is your soft landing spot. A place where neurodivergent habits is not only allowed but understood.
Where we make space for messy habits, cozy coping mechanisms, last-minute brilliance, and the quiet power of knowing ourselves better, even if we get there via weird routes and spontaneous hyperfixation tangents.

You don’t have to be “normal” here. You don’t have to explain or shrink yourself.
You’re allowed to show up exactly as you are, distracted, overwhelmed, forgetful, funny, brilliant, tired, and still be enough.

Drop your “weird” neurodivergent habits in the comments. I’m always looking to expand my collection.
Who knows? I might just adopt a few.

This is our no-shame zone.
Let’s keep unmasking, one beautifully “weird” habit at a time.

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Over time, I’ve built a collection of small rituals for mental health that help me stay grounded, soft, simple habits that stop the spiral before it begins.

There are days when I wake up and the heaviness is already there. Like I slept with an invisible weighted blanket on my mind, not the comforting kind, but the kind that makes it hard to think, move, or even breathe right.

Sometimes the spiral starts before I even open my eyes. Other times, it creeps in slowly, maybe it’s one overwhelming text message, an unfinished task staring at me from many days before, or just the noise in my own head getting too loud too fast. And just like that, I’m out of sync with the world again.

I used to think I needed to “snap out of it.” That I should be able to fix myself with some magical words of affirmation or just “try harder.” I’ve tried that. It didn’t work. All it did was make me feel broken, like I was failing at being a functioning adult or even human.

But I’ve learned something softer. Something truer for me. I don’t need to be fixed, I need to be held. Cared for. Soothed. And for me, that doesn’t always come in the form of a grand life change or a strict morning routine with ten steps and a green smoothie.

It comes in small rituals.

Tiny things. Things that ground me, remind me I’m real, and bring me back into my body when my mind is literally dancing on the ceiling. Some are quiet and slow, others are chaotic and impulsive, but they work for me. And that’s enough.

I still have bad days. I still spiral. I still forget that I’ve made it through 100% of my worst moments. But these rituals? They’re like gentle anchors. Soft survival spells. They keep me tethered.

This post isn’t a productivity guide. It’s not even really advice. It’s just a love letter to the little rituals that keep me going, that give me something to hold onto when my brain wants to float off into panic or exhaustion.

If you’ve ever felt like your thoughts are doing cartwheels, like you’re running on zero motivation but maxed-out emotion, just know… I see you. And I hope something in this list helps you hold on a little tighter, too. Those Small rituals for mental health can offer big relief, especially when your nervous system is overwhelmed.

Let’s get into it.

Small Rituals for Mental Health: I Journal What I Can’t Say Out Loud

There’s something strangely magical about a blank page. It’s one of the only places where my thoughts don’t get interrupted, questioned, or side-eyed. When I journal, I don’t need to be wise, poetic, or even coherent. I just need to be.

Some days, I write full sentences.

Other days, it’s a chaotic blend of random thoughts, half-finished questions, or a moody scribble that looks like a curse. But it helps.

Every single time.

Journaling has become my lifeline, especially when my mind is spiraling or fogged up with too many thoughts and scenarios.

It’s where I get to dump the emotional clutter without worrying about punctuation or not making sense. I can cry, rant, ask the universe weird questions, and admit things I don’t dare say out loud, even to my closest people.

Some entries begin with nothing more than: “I don’t know what to say.” And honestly?

That one sentence is often the gateway to everything I needed to release.

Journaling is my version of a mental detox. It’s not always deep or dramatic. Sometimes it’s just: “I am tired. I want some ice cream. Why am I not my cats’ primary human?” And yet, those small, honest truths anchor me.

So if your brain feels like a tangled ball of yarn some days, try picking up a pen. You don’t need a fancy prompt or the perfect notebook (although I do have a favorite pen that I will protect with my life). Just start. Write badly. Write beautifully. Write whatever you need because when you can’t speak your truth out loud, mental health journaling gives you the power to still say it… in your own sacred space.

Journaling is one of the reasons I rely on these small rituals for mental health when everything feels too loud.

Nap Like It’s Medicine

There was a time I thought naps were lazy. Like, how dare I take a break when my to-do list is giving me the death stare? To be honest, those were my parents’ words…

But somewhere between burnout number (I don’t even count anymore) and realizing I was running on vibes and sugar alone, I changed my mind. Now? I nap like it’s a prescription.

Rest is not a luxury … it’s survival. Especially when your nervous system is overcooked like a delicious lobster and your thoughts are doing somersaults in your skull. W

hen my brain starts buzzing like a phone on DND and my body feels heavy for no reason, I take the hint. I don’t argue with it anymore. I curl up, tuck myself under a cozy blanket, and let my body power down.

Sometimes I nap with a soft playlist on. Sometimes I just lay there in silence with my weighted plushie pressed to my chest like an emotional support beanbag. I don’t care if it’s 11 a.m. or 8 p.m., if my internal world is screaming “pause,” I pause.

Even a 20-minute nap (even if 2 hours is my favorite) can work like a gentle emotional reboot. It’s the soft reset I never knew I needed. My brain doesn’t always need a productivity hack. Sometimes it just needs to shut up and shut down for a bit.

And here’s the thing: rest for mental health is not just valid, it’s essential. You can’t journal your way out of chronic exhaustion. You can’t playlist yourself through burnout. Sometimes, the most revolutionary act is to close your eyes on purpose, even while the world keeps spinning.

So, if you ever find yourself spiraling and your eyelids are getting heavier by the minute…listen. Lay down. Nap like it’s sacred. Because it definitely is.

Tea is My Liquid Hug

There’s something quietly magical about making tea. It’s not just the drink, it’s the ritual. The little moment of decision: Do I want chamomile or peppermint? Rose hibiscus or lavender honey? The sound of the kettle, the aesthetic of the kettle, the steam rising like a whispered lullaby, the cute mug warming up in my hands like it knows I need to be held.

This is not just hydration. This is a self-soothing ritual.

I could be spiraling, overthinking, teetering on the edge of an anxiety fog… and yet, if I pause to make tea, something shifts. Not everything, not all at once. But just enough to soften the edges. Enough to feel like I’m still in my body. Still here.

It’s the pause I can hold. A small, sensory reminder that I’m allowed to take a break. That even when the day is chaotic or my emotions are extra crunchy, I can choose this slow, warm moment.

There are days I make tea three times just to give myself three tiny anchors to reality. The flavors change with my moods, floral when I’m soft, minty when I’m spiraling, dark and spicy when I need a kick in the soul. But the ritual stays the same. It’s my body’s way of hearing: “I see you. I hear you. Let’s breathe.”

So if you’re looking for comforting, self-soothing rituals that don’t require a major lifestyle overhaul, try starting with a mug of tea (the cutest you can find). It’s simple. It’s sacred. And it’s always there, waiting to be steeped in stillness.

I Let Music Match My Mood

I don’t just listen to music, I use it like a mood translator, but you could have guessed that. My playlists know me better than most people. I’ve got entire libraries curated for every emotional flavor: gentle sadness, slow joy, burnout blues, end-of-the-world rage, and that weird middle place where I feel everything and nothing at once.

I used to fight my moods, thinking I had to get over them to be productive or likable. Now I let music do the holding. Sometimes that means playing a slow instrumental until I melt into stillness. Other times? It’s putting on chaotic J-pop at full volume and letting myself scream-sing while pretending I’m in a romantic slice of life anime.

This is one of my favorite comforting routines for mental health because it requires no effort. No small talk. Just sound. I don’t have to explain how I feel; the music gets it. And on the days when I feel stuck or numb or drowning in my own thoughts, it gently cracks something open, just enough to let the light in.

Music doesn’t always make things better instantly. But it helps me feel, and that’s often the first step toward finding peace again. If you’re looking for one simple ritual that meets you where you’re at emotionally? This is it. Let your playlist be your therapist, your hype squad, or your soft landing.

Walking Off the Weight in My Chest

There are days when I can’t think clearly. When everything inside feels too loud and too tight, like my thoughts are wrapped in bubble wrap and echoing off the walls. And while I’d love to say that walking outside instantly heals me, that would be a lie (I have noticed, nothing is too easy in this world). But what it does do? It shifts something.

Even just stepping outside to feel the air on my skin, to hear the gravel crunch under my feet, or to watch squirrels living their tiny, dramatic lives (I blame Alvin and The Chipmunks for getting me interested in squirrels’ drama)… it helps. It brings me out of my head and back into my body.

Most of the time, I bring music or I watch some TikTok videos, or eat some gummies, because silence can sometimes amplify my turmoils. But even when I don’t go far ( literally, to the corner and back), it’s like I’ve sent a little message to my nervous system: “Hey, we’re still here. We’re safe. We’re moving.”

Some days I walk fast, as if I’m trying to outrun my anxiety (Spoiler Alert: she is never too far away). Other days, I stroll (or Dilly Dally as I like to call it) like I’m in a soft indie film. Either way, I don’t walk to escape the feelings; I walk to stretch them out. To unstick the gunk from my mind and feel just a little less suffocated.

This gentle movement has become one of my go-to comforting routines for mental health, especially when journaling or napping aren’t doing the trick. It’s not about steps or sweat. It’s about shifting. Grounding. Coming back to myself, one slow step at a time.

Skincare: The Start-Button Ritual

Skincare used to feel like a chore, especially when I was deep in the depression trenches. One more thing on the never-ending to-do list that I never got around to. But somewhere along the way, it became a ritual that starts the day or resets it when it’s falling apart.

It’s not even about achieving flawless, glowy skin (though we love her). It’s about the act of beginning. The feeling of cool water against my cheeks, the soft texture of cleanser in my palms, and the scent of my moisturizer as I gently press it into my face like a hug. Each step has weight. Each one grounds me in my body again.

And here’s the sneaky trick: once I start skincare, I have to finish it. I’m not about to waste product, okay? Not in this economy! So before I know it, I’ve cleansed, I’ve moisturized, I’ve even hopped in the shower. Somehow, doing one small, gentle thing unlocks the energy to keep going.

It’s a form of daily habit for mental health that doesn’t rely on motivation, just momentum. Even when my mind is foggy and my energy is glitching, this ritual is one of the few I trust to carry me gently forward.

Skincare isn’t vanity for me. It’s a strategy. It’s a soft reboot button when I can’t function. A permission slip to care for myself in the smallest way possible… which, funny enough, often leads to the biggest shift.

Trusting Safe Impulses: Honoring the Moment

Sometimes the thing that keeps me from crashing out isn’t a plan. It’s a random, sudden, totally out-of-nowhere urge.

To paint my nails.
To rearrange my furniture.
To try a new makeup routine at 11 PM.
To write in my cute journal like I’m writing a love letter to the void.

For years, I used to squash those impulses. “Focus!” “Be productive!” “Stick to the plan!” But I’ve learned to ask: Is this impulse safe? Is it kind? Will it bring me some peace, even if it’s weird? If the answer is yes, then I go for it.

These soft, spontaneous rituals aren’t chaotic, no, no, they’re intuitive. They meet me right where I am, in the truth of the moment. And weirdly, they often become the exact thing I needed to move out of a freeze or fog.

In a world that constantly asks us to be logical and linear, learning to honor safe impulses is an act of radical self-trust. It’s a reminder that healing doesn’t always look like structure… sometimes it looks like dyeing your hair on a Tuesday (which I regretted right after) or starting a candle from scratch for no reason.

These moments are what I call grounding rituals for anxiety, not because they’re planned, but because they pull me back to myself. Back to presence. Back to being instead of slowly sinking.

So if you feel a gentle nudge to do something slightly odd but comforting? Do it. You never know, it might be the lifeline your nervous system was reaching for.

Final Thoughts: It’s Not About Fixing, It’s About Soothing

There was a time I thought I had to fix myself to feel better. To beat the flux of emotions. To find the magic routine that would erase the anxiety, the fog, the weird brain static. But I’ve learned… slowly, gently, that the goal isn’t perfection.

It’s comfort.

It’s building small, daily habits for mental health that feel like a soft place to land when everything feels too sharp. It’s not about snapping out of it; it’s about soothing myself through it.

These rituals? They’re not always graceful. Some days I still struggle, still shut down, still stare at the ceiling wondering if it will ever be okay.

But now, I have anchors. Familiar motions. Tiny lifelines stitched into my day, not to fix me, but to remind me I’m not broken.

Tea. Music. A nap. A gentle walk. Talking to myself in a journal like I’m my own oldest friend (because I am). None of it is revolutionary. But together, these small acts of care become a rhythm. A heartbeat. A way to keep showing up.

So if you’ve found comfort in your own odd little rituals, the ones that don’t make sense to anyone but your nervous system… this space is for you. For us. For the feelers. The overthinkers. The quietly brave. The ones doing the best we can with the minds we’ve got.

We don’t need to be cured to be worthy. We don’t need to be fixed to be loved.
We just need room to be soft, and safe, and human.

Let’s keep going. Let’s keep soothing.
One ritual at a time.

Also, If you’re exploring neurodivergent self-soothing, this post on my weird brain habits might resonate, and these grounding techniques by MHA are a good resource to pair with personal rituals.

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